III.30. When did you last cry in front of another person? By yourself?
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II.15. What is the greatest accomplishment of your life?
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III.27. If you were going to become a close friend with your partner, please share what would be important for him or her to know.
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III.36. Share a personal problem and ask your partner’s advice on how he or she might handle it. Also, ask your partner to reflect back to you how you seem to be feeling about the problem you have chosen.
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I.7. Do you have a secret hunch about how you will die?
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III.31. Tell your partner something that you like about them already.
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II.19. If you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, would you change anything about the way you are now living? Why?
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II.23. How close and warm is your family? Do you feel your childhood was happier than most other people’s?
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III.25. Make three true “we” statements each. For instance, “We are both in this room feeling ... “
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I.6. If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want?
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II.16. What do you value most in a friendship?
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I.9. For what in your life do you feel most grateful?
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I.5. When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else?
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II.24. How do you feel about your relationship with your mother?
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I.2. Would you like to be famous? In what way?
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II.14. Is there something that you’ve dreamed of doing for a long time? Why haven’t you done it?
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I.12. If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability, what would it be?
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I.4. What would constitute a “perfect” day for you?
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I.10. If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?
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III.33. If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven’t you told them yet?
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II.22. Alternate sharing something you consider a positive characteristic of your partner. Share a total of five items.
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III.32. What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about?
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III.28. Tell your partner what you like about them; be very honest this time, saying things that you might not say to someone you’ve just met.
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I.1. Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest?
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I.3. Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?
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III.35. Of all the people in your family, whose death would you find most disturbing? Why?
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I.11. Take four minutes and tell your partner your life story in as much detail as possible.
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II:21. What roles do love and affection play in your life?
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III.34. Your house, containing everything you own, catches fire. After saving your loved ones and pets, you have time to safely make a final dash to save any one item. What would it be? Why?
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II.20. What does friendship mean to you?
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I.8. Name three things you and your partner appear to have in common.
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III.26. Complete this sentence: “I wish I had someone with whom I could share ... “
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II.17. What is your most treasured memory?
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II.13. If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future or anything else, what would you want to know?
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III.29. Share with your partner an embarrassing moment in your life.
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