with no illusions or pretensions; practical and realistic
15
sensible
(of a statement or course of action) chosen in accordance with wisdom or prudence; likely to be of benefit; rational OR having an understanding of a situation:
25
sensitive
easily upset by the things people say or do, or causing people to be upset, embarrassed, or angry or understanding what other people need, and being helpful
25
stand-offish
behaving in a slightly unfriendly and too formal way, distant, cold, aloof.
20
self-centered
caring only about yourself; self-absorbed:
10
trustworthy
able to be trusted, reliable
10
open-minded
willing to consider ideas and opinions that are new or different to your own:
10
uptight
worried or nervous and not able to relax: tense, impatient
20
laid-back
relaxed in manner and character; not usually worried about other people's behaviour or things that need to be done
15
level-headed
calm and able to deal easily with difficult situations
15
unpretentious
simple and/or sincere; not pretentious; not trying to impress.
15
caring
A caring person is kind and gives emotional support to others:
15
dependable
If someone or something is dependable, you can have confidence in him, her, or it:
20
tolerant
showing willingness to allow the existence of opinions or behavior that one does not necessarily agree with.