Self Talk: "Is now a silly moment or a serious moment?" If a serious moment, then this is not a good time to crack a joke or say something that I think is funny.
WasFunnyOnce
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Thank about how the person treats you. Is he friendly or mean to you? If this person is friendly to me then he is not being mean to me. Tell yourself: "I am being negative. What could be a positive way to think about it?"
Grump Grumpaniny
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Use one-arm rule to determine if you are standing too close to someone.
Space Invader
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trap
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star
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fairy
Take points!
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thief
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Turn your body and eyes away from what is distracting you and think about the person talking.
Brain Eater
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Close your eyes, take a deep breath, and let it out slowly. Continue to do this until your body feels relaxed and is not worried anymore.
Worry Wall
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Use your eyes to think about where your group is or who is talking to you, and find the group! Ask yourself "where should my body be?"
Body Snatcher
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eraser
Reset score!
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shark
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shark
Other team loses 25 points!
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baam
Lose 10 points!
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Take a deep breath and remember that being part of a group means that you cannot always do it your way or make the decisions you want.
Rock Brain
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Check in with your eyes and see how the rest of the group is acting. Try to match how calm the other kids are with their bodies. Take a few deep breaths to calm your body.
Energy Hare-y
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Identify the size of the problem (1-10) and what would be an expected reaction to match the size of the problem.
Glassman
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Check-in with those around you. Does it look like they are interested in what you are saying? if not, ask a question about what they might want to talk about.
Topic Twistermeister
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Look at the person who is talking to let him know that you rethinking about him and what he is saying.
Un-Wonderer
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Tell yourself "If I am a 'Just Me' player, then my friends will not have a good time." Or "Tiny problem. I will still get a turn or may win another time."
D.O.F. Destroyer of Fun
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seesaw
Swap points!
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magnet
Take 25 points!
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shark
Other team loses 20 points!
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lifesaver
Give 25 points!
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Think with your eyes to figure out what the person's plan is. If he looks busy, save your question for another time.